Well, those of you who subscribe will notice it has been a while since I have written. My poor husband has been quick sick and in hospital last week which has brought with it a new set of challenges. He is now home and the good news is that he will be fine with some further treatment!

 Meanwhile, I have had the wonderful experience of a group of friends rallying around me offering whatever support I may need. Some have cooked meals for us, others have offered to help with the children and others have helped with the driving (his hospital is a 2 hour drive away). Even just knowing that people are there to help has been helpful. I mentioned Random Acts of Kindness not so long ago – well I feel truly blessed to be on the receiving end of these at this time.

One thing that really struck me during this time was that I could spend a lot of my time worrying about what was going to happen. I really got a taste of what Living in the Now means. Every time I noticed myself worrying about what might or might not happen I brought myself back to the present. In doing so I was truly able to enjoy myself – spending time with the kids, talking with others and whatever else I did.

I also practised lots of self care and only did what I felt like doing during this time…without any of the guilty feelings I may have had in the past. In letting go, I also let go of any expectations (including writing in my blog!). So what could have been a very stressful time was actually OK. And to those beautiful friends who have helped and still help me, I am VERY grateful to have you in my life.