This week has seen me return to yoga. For some time now I have wanted to bring this back into my life. With three young children, a business to run, school duties etc I find time slips away and I still haven’t done any yoga.
So this has me thinking. I have always thought that we must do yoga for at least 1 – 1 1/2 hours (and preferably daily) for it to be beneficial. This is precisely the thing that kep me away, because I couldn’t find 1-1 1/2 hours each day. This thought was based on things I have been told by others who practice yoga (especially those without children).
This week in my local library I discovered a DVD that provides half hour sessions, so I thought I would give it a go. Well, I TOTALLY love it. I get what I need out of it and what’s more I do find 1/2 hour every day to practise.
I don’t know whether I am doing it ‘enough’ and yes it probably would be fantastic for me to do it for 1-1 1/2 hours every day…but right now I choose not dedicate that amount of time to it. Instead I have found a way that works for me and I am happier, I look forward to it every day and I still have time to do all the ‘mummy’ things I want to do. And I notice my body is loosening up every day
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Looking back I notice that it was my thinking of what yoga ’should’ be that was stopping me from doing any at all. Once I changed my thinking and realised that it can be whatever I make it…because after all it is my life…it became very easy to incorporate daily.
I notice this with many of my clients – the thing stopping them is not always what it seems. Once we get in touch with our thinking around a situation new possibilities open up. I invite you to take a look at one thing in your life you have been wanting to do. Take some quiet moments to reflect and discover what it is that is really stopping you.
Hi Margit,
I really agree with this… we have so many beliefs that we aren’t even fully conscious of, yet they strongly influence our behaviour. Once we identify these beliefs, analyse where they’re coming from, and realise that they were perhaps someone else’s, or they no longer apply, or they were based on a false premise, we can overcome them. This is such a liberating exercise! And it can be used in so many areas of our lives, with astounding results!
Mimi x
By: Mimi on August 1, 2007
at 11:10 pm
Hi Mimi
Well said – this is truly liberating. Once we realise the power our thoughts can have, we can free ourselves and chase those dreams we have. Examining our thoughts and being able to choose them is completely empowering!!! And you are right we can do this in ANY area of our life.
Dr William Glasser (who came up with Choice Theory) says that we can choose our thoughts and behaviour. The way we feel is linked to these but we can’t control it. BUT by choosing our thoughts and actions we then affect the way we feel…so many people wait until they ‘feel’ better or a certain way before taking action. Imagine they could get in touch with this idea and change their thoughts and actions…they would automatically feel differently!
Margit x
By: familycoach on August 2, 2007
at 12:34 pm